No matter how much I try to be attractive to women, I always seem to attract gay men. That is not to say there is anything wrong with them but I am a straight male and I'm confused as to why women do not find me attractive but they do.
What would cause a straight man to be very attractive to gay men but not straight women? On the flip side, I receive very little attention like that from women - and it's usually women who I don't find attractive at all.
Those who identify as bisexual are attracted to more than one gender, and people who identify as pansexual are attracted to people regardless of gender. Usually, who you’re attracted to is.
What exactly those terms mean is debatable, though — gay men have been found to exhibit a wider spectrum of stereotypically masculine and feminine mannerisms and speech patterns than straight men.