Can a gay man like a non binary person

A straight guy can definitely be attracted to a non-binary person. Sexuality is complex and can be complicated. The labels we use are the ones we feel describe it best, but they’re not always perfect.

If we can acknowledge that gay and straight people can and do date unaligned nonbinary people — even if others only want to date wo/men — and that we don’t need separate terms to distinguish these two groups in the same sexuality, then we should grant bisexuality the same nuance.

There isn’t a ‘pronouns police’ who will call you out for saying you’re in a gay relationship if you’re dating a non-binary person. If you feel that you identify as pansexual rather than bisexual, no one should be asking you to define the difference or to see your relationship history.

On a similar note, non-binary people may still identify as gay due to approximation and convenience. If they present stereotypically man and date and sleep with people who look like a man, it may.